Introversion-Extroversion

I have just read some Deviation at deviantart.com, it's called

How to Live with Introverts
I have read about 500 comments about it, total are like 1055 and counting
There's a lot to say about Social Interaction, Social Gathering, activities prone to Extroverts, like parties, meetings, night outings, and activities prone to Introverts, like videogames, reading, some little friend company and being beside a computer.
Of course there's the kind of Introvert that just wants all his time by himself, the kind of Extrovert that wants to talk to everybody and that his voice heard. The Introvert who can give time to somebody if it can be useful, Extroverts who can talk to everybody without sounding too annoying. Introverts who like to get attention, Extroverts who want at least some little time to themselves...

I would think that those who commented have something about it, because they are Introverts they have to face all those commented situations, like getting bothered by people when they are in their own concentration (I could relate to that, heheh, I just put my own concentration when I'm not into social motion, generally in my house, I don't know if even in social motion they don't want to be bothered...), also when don't feel they want to talk, or even when they don't want to get into social relation, but I think this post was to get to know introverts who they need some support to makes life better.

Just to state:
There's not Absolute in Introversion-Extroversion, but the Interaction between people is important for Everybody.


I have learned a lot from searching meanings of friendship and experiencing,
doing some changes of behavior and not giving up the chance of continuing,
it's just that I like to listen your friendly conversations, and try to contribute the best I can.
Maybe I have few topics I'm capable to talk (mostly of what I like)but it's cool when the right moment of encounter appears or when I go outside, I could do sort of the things everybody else does:

having fun with their friends!
(in the way we know how to do it!)

for all other introverted people, this is for you,
you may not want to talk or want someone bothering you, but I know if you don't want to talk,  at least sharing a video game play /cartoon watching would be awesome, especially if we know we like those kind of things, especially if you can share it with someone near your place.... especially if at least you want something better for your life, :D

Because you have considered a little bit,  and it would be cool if you consider others points of view, so in a team establish motions of empathy and live all well in society (of course you can have your time,  but consider if other wants some of your time,  at least you want to listen a little bit, or make a deal on conversation type, or something)

[Is it weird that I have moments when you are feeling happy, then you feel sad, just because someone doesn't paying enough attention, or because your expectations didn't met? I would give a lot if that sad moment wouldn't affect me for a little long time... I know I can recover from it, because I do. Or maybe I just need to enjoy in a good way my sadness and think about it, maybe not too much negative thoughts, or something....
Just a complicated mind... :P
Hope you can understand me, whatever thing you can talk to me, we can make clear things if you talk about it, emotions will be considered but actions will be Objective-based so anything I would review it and try to make it better for the better good.]

"Whatever you feel better at this moment would be good, changes can happen but as long as we can update ourselves, we can have friends that can support us...."


In my whereabouts, it's all Introversion, so I don't put a lot of effort to it, in School, most of people are Introverted too, so whatever person who is Extrovert can understand a little about us. What we share is what we learn, so on those topics we can relate a conversation about it and we can be happy about it.

On a last position, there were some who are Extroverts but they only wanted to be with their kind, some people that talked to me just get topics I didn't want to talk, or I had not enough development and confidence about it, I don't know if they have done a little effort to understand my position.
But it's also your duty to put your position towards them too, because if you can understand the person you want to talk, or the person that's talking to you, it will be easier to have a conversation.

If our ramblings for us Introverts is that not everybody understands us, and we're not like everybody else, and we don't have lots of friends that share our interests, it's just because we don't have strong-based motion, or only there are things that bothers us that makes our lives a little more difficult.

Life is difficult indeed, because effort is needed to maintain our position and live it well. We need to consider that whatever you are Extrovert or Introvert, effort is needed.

I don't know if it's useless or not It's just a matter of personal achievement, but I think it's good to get to everybody knows it. So hope it gets you into knowing more, there're people like me to likes to talk and write about those kind of information, because in a way it helps you develop better your knowledge. But just because something is there telling you is not enough, I suggest develop your ideas towards your personality and if you want, you can express it with everybody.

I will make my commitment, to talk with the ones I feel the need to talk, and share this if that's enough, not giving up and trying again with different values, until he can understand what I wanted to say, at least I want to hear his opinion about it. It would be great.

[Take whatever thing you want from here, and use it wisely and for your own benefit. I'll do my best to prove we can do things better]
[OK, I should not be too general about this, you'll get my message if this post was meant for you...]
[Because it's important to me to get to know this, so be prepared, you'll get this will turn out great... :D ]

[Just that I'm just nervous about it, darn emotions that makes me feel anxious about new things...]
[-You'll do it fine, just go for it, heheh]

Versus Challenging Ideas

Ideas come and go forcing you into stepping  back,
counter ideas try to overcome the forceful ones,
a bunch of state arguments fight the battle and try to restore peace,
meanwhile your mind and body enters in a weird emotion of anger....

Objective Motion tries to understand the forceful idea
State Reality would analyze to whom was the idea appointed at.
Far Motion analyzes origin, position level and time elapsed of each forceful argument
State Focus establishes a constant state of not losing control and maintain calm

The State is ready for counter,
trying to set arguments on different visions,
conclusions are set on different angles,
trying to understand what the argument really meant.

"Your position is outdated - get an update and reconsider your argument"
"Your position has nothing to do with your argument - what was that for then?"
"Your position may be broken with this other - you need to broaden your point of view"
"Your position is untenable by the original, and you still state it - obtain another one"

It's easy to position by the words of other,
but it may be not the meaning you interpret,
and still when you get that position in your hands,
you place that meaning to others.

Get your own words and try to tell it better,
the world is always updating, you should do it too,
get ideas from others, it's a fair application
but transform it into knowledge, widen its point of view.

Now then, that the general statement is known to you,
it's time to consider your position and the Objective Motion.
After the fight, anger was prevented,
but what I wanted to say just stayed as a general idea.

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